tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6017927177231080668.post4874991328847525556..comments2024-02-06T11:57:25.334-05:00Comments on The Frumanista: Match.com vs. MatchmakerPrincess Leahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17217157534383672867noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6017927177231080668.post-52342448848718565502012-12-06T09:36:20.557-05:002012-12-06T09:36:20.557-05:00Fair enough.
Fair enough. <br />Shockedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08562350512966828981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6017927177231080668.post-18093980388153976072012-12-06T09:13:42.664-05:002012-12-06T09:13:42.664-05:00As long as it is on the internet, devoid of human ...As long as it is on the internet, devoid of human presence, no "tool" will help. <br /><br />I think we should just relax about dating. The more we overanalyze it, the more we suck any sort of enjoyment or romance out. Princess Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17217157534383672867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6017927177231080668.post-14364461358102463932012-12-05T17:25:18.765-05:002012-12-05T17:25:18.765-05:00Out of curiosity, do you believe that there is any...Out of curiosity, do you believe that there is any sort of tool a dating website could create that you think would be helpful towards setting singles up in a way that matches people up? Or are they pretty much "useless" in that sense? Shockedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08562350512966828981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6017927177231080668.post-42514804801506531312012-11-21T09:25:26.399-05:002012-11-21T09:25:26.399-05:00Singles very much appreciate it! Being a shadchan ...Singles very much appreciate it! Being a shadchan is very hard; whenever I've tried it it has blown up in my face, spectacularly so. But I try not to let that keep me from shadchaning again. As long as I have made the effort, it counts. <br /><br />Singles only get aggravated when we are being treated like unreasonable pieces of meat. :) Princess Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17217157534383672867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6017927177231080668.post-26464452751542194902012-11-20T20:14:27.787-05:002012-11-20T20:14:27.787-05:00Thanks for the motivation- my husband and I make a...Thanks for the motivation- my husband and I make an effort to try to introduce folks who seem like they might work well together, but it's often tough going- this one's too frum for that one, or getting people in the same place at the same time is hard. Hearing that singles find it worthwhile is a good reminder that we should just keep making efforts. Maya Resnikoffhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00251303621825787312noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6017927177231080668.post-28535872819040476302012-11-20T13:25:13.282-05:002012-11-20T13:25:13.282-05:00Firstly, the term "shadchan" is terribly...Firstly, the term "shadchan" is terribly misused nowadays. A "shadchan" is simply someone, anyone, who set up two people successfully. <br /><br />There is a couple out there who was set up by my mother. Ergo, she was their shadchan. Is she a "shadchan" shadchan? No. <br /><br />I find that those who did not grow up being familiar with the shidduch system erroneously believe it is about a woman who self-titled herself as such. In the end, one should be focused on their own personal circle of friends, family, and acquaintances who can help them network. <br /><br />Secondly, when it comes to dating and that whole bashert business, there is no such thing as taking control. There is the illusion of control, but in the end two people meet when they are supposed to. Princess Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17217157534383672867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6017927177231080668.post-12826153646771915122012-11-20T10:17:59.896-05:002012-11-20T10:17:59.896-05:00I agree online dating sites are not ideal. but in ...I agree online dating sites are not ideal. but in this day and age with shadachanim calling only the select few what other alternatives are there for someone to take control over their own dating life instead of staying single. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com