tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6017927177231080668.post7633619446622006819..comments2024-02-06T11:57:25.334-05:00Comments on The Frumanista: Friends No MorePrincess Leahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17217157534383672867noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6017927177231080668.post-19026106909570530512012-03-11T14:10:53.437-04:002012-03-11T14:10:53.437-04:00And that's how it should be! In the end, one h...And that's how it should be! In the end, one has to prioritize the marriage-friendship over everything else, plus there's all sorts of other things to do. <br /><br />But if someone really wants to make the effort, then other friendships will still be possible.Princess Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17217157534383672867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6017927177231080668.post-3358753432981687282012-03-11T11:10:22.288-04:002012-03-11T11:10:22.288-04:00having been on both sides i think i have an answer...having been on both sides i think i have an answer for you. when you get married tour husband serves a purpose friebds once served. you have someone to share your feelings,dreams frustrations with...and they live with you! granted- females still need close female relationships but once your married and/or have a kid u have much less time for EVERYTHING including friendship. this impacts u in 2 ways 1) your more likely to maintain friendships that relate most to your life now (so u also use triple paste for diaper rash? oh cool!) its also just easier to relate to ppl in the same stage...2)u just dont have te time for the old styke of friendship (ie on the phone every sngle day...callingb whenever u want just to shmooze or vent.....)my best friend got marrried 4 years before me and we stayed close...another close friend is still single and we"re also still close...these are both xchildhood friends ive remained close to...some of the girks from grad school? havent spoken to in close to a year....when married, friendship is no longer ur most important relationship...Sunshine Dreamernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6017927177231080668.post-67851450471576664242012-02-21T16:18:29.895-05:002012-02-21T16:18:29.895-05:00True. Entering this new phase takes away from prev...True. Entering this new phase takes away from previously available time. After the new kallah works out a new schedule, maybe then she would be able to be chummy again.Princess Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17217157534383672867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6017927177231080668.post-58133446470772330032012-02-21T13:57:04.098-05:002012-02-21T13:57:04.098-05:00while this may at times be true, many times the ne...while this may at times be true, many times the newly married forgets even the closest of friends. i dont think this negates the entire previous friendship. it just means they dont know how to balance their new relationship with the old. and many times if you wait around they come back and while it may be a different sort of friendship, that doesnt mean its not good in its own ways.still waitinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04809028195061571821noreply@blogger.com