Wow. It's been a while. But hey, Pesach prep is FUN, right? (Demented laughter.) In all seriousness, I do the bare minimum, no deep cleaning anything, and I'm all for being checked into a sanitarium to have pity on my poor nerves.
So, let's get into whatever bugaboo is . . . bugging me now.
I have cousins who live across the world. Not close cousins, second cousins, or something, maybe, but close enough that we're friends on social media. The mother is my relative, and she lives a lifestyle very different from mine.
Her feed is . . . stunning. Stylish. Glamorous. She's as slender as a rake. I don't think I've seen her wearing the same ensemble twice. She's constantly at bars with her friends for someone's birthday, her tanned arm raising a champagne glass. There are the magnificent views from a magnificent home, and I still don't know if it's her abode or an AirBNB. Her kids are beautiful and talented.
Despite the fact that I've posted repeatedly that social media cannot be trusted, it's very hard to distrust what's right in front of you. I don't have an imagination—I can't write fiction—so I fall for it. That's why I don't follow anyone, usually, who claims to have a wonderful life—because I can't prove that they are human like the rest of us.
But I have to follow my cousin, obviously, and I fell for it.
Then one night, I was scrolling through her feed to find a specific photo to show my father. And then I saw it, a comment a friend of hers left on yet another gushy birthday post:
"Happy Birthday! You've had a tough couple of years, so I wish you have a much better year to come."
*Needle scratch*
Come say what now?
It's always disorienting as you mentally spin a 180.
The bombardment of fabulosity still continues. But now I see it with a little more context.
We are all human, and none of us live perfect lives.
2 comments:
One of several reasons I'm really not into telling people to "check their privilege" is that everyone has troubles sooner or later, it's just that some are better at hiding them.
Very true. Because who really knows who is truly "privileged," and who is not?
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